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Story of my life.

My name is Eva-Maria, and this is my story; Selorm and I had been dating for about three months. He was my "dream guy". Even though I'm only 20, I knew that I loved him. He was the second guy I had dated in my life; but he does not believe me when I tell him so. He says that I'm "too beautiful" to have been with only one man in my entire life. It sounded so unreal to him. But that was the truth. It's not that I hadn't been approached by men or seen men, but I knew that I was young and had my whole life ahead of me, so why rush. I told myself that I would only date when I love. My first boyfriend Collins, was amazing; but not perfect. Even though he was the first to make love to me, he was still very insecure because I was "too beautiful" . He would take my phone and delete all the male names saved in my contact list. He would check my messages and demand answers for anything he found unusual. Initially, I did not have a problem with all th

We once bothered not

We once bothered not about pubic hair, but only to keep the hair on our heads neat and short. We once bothered not about wearing skimpy clothes or thongs, but only that our clothes were clean and comfortable to wear. We once bothered not about mensturation and sanitary pads, but only that we had sweet scented powder smeared over our bodies, ready for bed. We once bothered not about the many things that we bother about today. When we were Young and carefree... When were happy, innocent and free...

Gone are the days

Gone are the days when women wore gowns, and men wore robes. Gone are days when love was real and kisses were passionate.  Gone are the days when women raised boys to become men. Gone are those days.... Technology, modernity, has drenched our morals.  Women turn themselves to men, and men to women, The irony. Gone are the days indeed......